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ADHD & Self-Care
Gentle, practical ideas for looking after yourself in ways that work for your brain. Everyone’s experience of ADHD is different, so take what helps and leave the rest.
Understanding the Challenge
Self-care can look simple from the outside, yet for some people with ADHD it can feel surprisingly hard. Everyone's experience is different, and you may recognise some of these, all of them or none at all.
Forgetting your needs
When you're focused or busy, signals like hunger, thirst or tiredness can be easy to miss until they feel urgent.
Feeling overwhelmed
A long list of things you "should" do can feel too big to begin, so self-care may slip to the bottom.
Routines that don't stick
Routines might work brilliantly for a while and then fade. That's not a failure – it's a sign to adjust and try again.
Guilt about resting
Some people feel they haven't "earned" a break. Rest is a need, not a reward, and you deserve it too.
Gentle self-care foundations
Self-care can look different for everyone. These ideas are starting points – pick what feels helpful and leave the rest.
💧 Hydration
Keep a favourite water bottle within sight, or link a drink to something you already do, like brushing your teeth.
🍎 Food
Simple, low-effort snacks and gentle reminders can help on busy or low-energy days. Any nourishment counts.
🌙 Sleep
A calm wind-down routine, a bedtime alarm or dimmed screens may help some people. Notice what works for you.
🛋️ Rest
Rest is not something you have to earn. Short, planned breaks can make space to recharge.
🤝 Connection
A quick message, a walk with a friend or time in a supportive community can help you feel less alone.
🌈 Joy
Make room for interests, music, creativity or play – the things that light you up are part of caring for yourself too.
REFLECTION ACTIVITY
Five-Minute Self-Care Check-In
Take a gentle pause. There are no right or wrong answers here – just a chance to notice how you are and what might help today.
When to seek support
If looking after yourself feels consistently overwhelming, or you notice changes in your mood, sleep or wellbeing, it may help to speak with your GP or an appropriately qualified professional. Reaching out is a sign of self-care, not failure.
Find a comfortable spot, take a slow breath and read through these prompts. You might jot your answers down, say them aloud or simply think them through.
- How is my body feeling right now – am I hungry, thirsty, tired or tense?
- Have I eaten, had a drink of water or taken any medication I need today?
- What is one small thing I could do in the next ten minutes to feel a little more comfortable?
- Is there anything I am putting pressure on myself to do perfectly?
- Who or what could help me feel supported today?
- What is one kind thing I can say to myself right now?
Your answers may change from day to day, and that is completely okay. Come back to this check-in whenever you need it.
Related pages
Explore more from Life With ADHD > Everyday Life. Take whatever feels helpful and leave the rest.
- ADHD & Self-Care
- ADHD & Personal Hygiene
- ADHD & Driving
- ADHD & Decision Paralysis
- ADHD & Task Initiation
Worksheets & the ADHD & Me Toolkit
Printable worksheets for this page are coming soon. In the meantime, the Toolkit gathers gentle tools you can adapt to suit you.
Future worksheet space — coming soon
ADHD & Me provides general educational information and lived experiences. It does not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Please seek advice from an appropriately qualified professional about your individual circumstances.