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ADHD & Finding Your Strengths
Welcome to a gentle space for noticing what you do well. Strengths look different for everyone, with or without ADHD – this page will help you discover your own, at your own pace.
Finding your strengths
What do we mean by strengths?
A strength is a quality or ability that helps you, that you can use with some confidence, and that often feels good to use. Strengths are developed over time through experience, support, practice and interest.
Some people with ADHD recognise the strengths below in themselves; others will not, and that is completely okay. These are examples to explore, not traits that every ADHD person has.
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Creativity
Making new connections, trying unusual ideas or expressing yourself in your own way.
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Compassion
Understanding how others feel, perhaps shaped by your own experiences.
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Problem-solving
Finding workarounds when the usual way does not suit you.
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Determination
Keeping going and trying again after things have been hard.
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Adaptability
Adjusting plans, switching approach or coping with change when life does not go as expected.
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Attention to detail
Noticing small things, especially in topics that really interest you.
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Communication
Sharing ideas, stories or encouragement in ways that connect with people.
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Resourcefulness
Making the most of the tools, people and ideas around you.
Your strengths may look different from these, and they can grow and change over time. You do not need to recognise yourself in every card.
Practical strategies
Gentle ways to discover your strengths
Strengths look different for everyone, and ADHD doesn't hand out the same ones to all of us. These ideas are simply starting points – try the ones that feel right and leave the rest.
1. Notice what you enjoy
Pay attention to the activities that make time fly or leave you feeling energised. Enjoyment can be a clue to where your strengths might lie.
2. Look back at achievements
List moments you felt proud of, big or small. Ask yourself which skills or qualities helped you get there.
3. Collect positive feedback
Save kind words from friends, colleagues or teachers. Patterns in what others appreciate can reveal strengths you might overlook.
4. Learn from challenges
Think about difficult times you got through. Resilience, problem-solving or asking for help are strengths too.
5. Ask trusted people
Ask someone who knows you well, “What do you think I'm good at?” Their answer may surprise you – and it's fine if you see things differently.
Interactive reflection activity
Strengths Discovery
Take your time with these prompts. There are no right answers, and your strengths may look different from anyone else’s. Strengths vary from person to person, and ADHD does not automatically bring any particular strength.
What energises me?
Think of a time you felt absorbed and alive. What were you doing, and who were you with?
What do others notice?
What do friends, family or colleagues come to you for? What have people thanked you for?
What have I overcome?
Recall a challenge you worked through. Which qualities helped you keep going?
Where do I need support?
Strengths and challenges sit side by side. Which tools or people help you use your strengths well?
Laura’s personal reflection
For a long time, I could only see the things I struggled with. When I finally sat down to explore my strengths, I noticed creativity, compassion and determination – qualities that have carried me through difficult days.
Organisation is still something I find hard, and that’s okay. I’ve learnt that my problem-solving often shines when I build systems around how my brain actually works. My strengths are mine – yours may look completely different, and they are just as valuable.
Printable worksheet
My ADHD Strengths Rainbow
Colour in each band of the rainbow with a strength you have noticed in yourself – something you enjoy, something people thank you for, or something that helps on a tricky day. Your rainbow will look different from anyone else’s, and that’s okay. There is no right number of strengths and no strength everyone with ADHD shares.
- Pink: something I’m naturally drawn to
- Peach: a time I felt proud of myself
- Yellow: what friends or family appreciate about me
- Mint: a skill I’ve grown with practice
- Sky blue: what helps me feel calm and focused
- Lavender: a strength I’d like to explore next
Worksheet placeholder – downloadable PDF coming soon.
Keep exploring
Related pages in Everyday Life
Every ADHD brain is different. Take what helps, leave what doesn’t, and explore at your own pace.
ADHD & Happiness
What happiness can look like for you, and small ways to notice the good moments – including the Happiness Jar.
ADHD & Creativity
Exploring creativity in all its forms – without assuming every ADHD brain is creative – plus the Creative Brain Dump.
ADHD & Finding Your Strengths
Discover your own strengths, which vary from person to person, with the Strengths Discovery Worksheet.
ADHD & Personal Growth
Growth at your own pace, celebrating progress over perfection, with the Monthly Growth Check-In.
Building a Life That Works for Your ADHD
Shape routines and spaces around how your brain works, with the ADHD-Friendly Life Audit and a letter to your future self.
ADHD & Me shares lived experiences and general educational information. It does not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Please speak to an appropriately qualified healthcare professional about individual concerns.